That you're masquerading as a man with a reason, and your charade is the event of the season? I told you I wouldn't make promises about what you're going to end up going back to, but I will tell you this much: You do good. You matter. It's enough.

Quit beating yourself up. You meet enough other people in your life who are more than happy to do that, you don't need to do it to yourself, too.